About the origin of a joy

How a little child generates joy, but by the interaction with others and by its own progress.? This is something that we forgot to use as the main motivation to act. As we are growing up, we hear:

"You should..."

"This is the best for you.."

"You must because..."

"Everybody else does it..."

Thus we are more focused on results, aims, money, and possessions. Look at a little child, how is he eager for experiences and sharing his moments with others (laughing especially)? Or is it important for him to gather things and toys? A lot of children suffer from a lack of parents' attention and warmth sometimes. They prefer to spend their time together against living in a golden cage of saturation with material stuff.

And aren't we building such a golden cage for ourselves in a relationship with nature? Then it is much more difficult to feel how to live in a balance. We are focused on growth, earnings, x pairs of shoes, perfectioning the outer look, expensive cosmetics, and even on overeducation since an early age instead of free play.

We were born on EARTH, and our life should be connected with nature as much as possible. Just as the baby is tied to its mother at the very first moment when born, we are bound to nature, to our planet.

And the best is that everybody can find their own way through joyful feeling, which is the basic part of the personality.

Joy can help us feel it.